Put on then, as God's chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive. And above all these put on love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.
Colossians 3:12-14 (ESV)
Not all relationships muddle our priorities; in fact, many relationships can also push us to grow deeper in our faith. We may have someone who encourages us when we are struggling, and loves us like Jesus. These people are a blessing and make a difference in our lives.
How can we build Christ-centred relationships? Well, we must first evaluate ourselves. Are we focused on Christ and striving to follow him? Are we loving and caring for others the way the Bible tells us to? We can pray to develop these qualities and practice being more Christlike.
Developing Christ-centred relationships also requires us to surround ourselves with those who are striving to do the same. However, remember that the Bible tells us to treat those who do not have the same ideals or who may step on our nerves with love. Relationships of all kinds take effort and love on our part.
Lord, we sometimes struggle with our relationships with others, and we know there is no better place to turn to You. Give us wisdom on how to treat others like how You value us. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Jacqueline Wong
